well...I think the silence says it all . He doesn't want to accept what I expect of him or he's just thinking it through . Frankly , I was thinking that maybe he is not ready to open up . so yea...maybe I will give him a few more days and then we will see. But oh well.. it's up to god's will also . Can't help it...but wonder if I had really screwed things up with him though .lols